[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Welcome to who’s on fourth where we interview one member of the yeah write community and the interview will publish the fourth Monday of each month. Next in the series features Arden of Arden Ruth Writes interviewing Shailaja of The Moving Quill & Diary of a Doting Mom.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_separator][vc_column_text]
yeah write on yeah write: Arden interviews Shailaja
[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]We here at yeah write love when a great writer stumbles upon us, grows with us and sticks by us for years, all in an effort to better their craft and build a community of writers. Shailaja is one of those writers. She first came to yeah write in November 2013 when she committed to NaBloPoMo and then submitted her first piece to a grid that next month. However, like myself and many other writers who first joined yeah write, it took a bit to snag that first, coveted badge.
It took me a whole year to get an editor’s pick or even come close to the top row on the grid, but I didn’t give up. What makes me come back each week is three fold: the camaraderie and accessibilty of the editors, the genuine and relevant comments that people leave on the posts and the quality of the writing which keeps motivating me to push myself harder each time.
You can find Shailaja on all three grids at any given week and, she does well on all of them (as you can see from this awesome page):
I love all three but I am particularly fond of the microstory grid since it allows me to explore how far I can stretch my creativity within the space of 42 words. I’ve also taken a huge liking to the nonfiction grid of late since I’m constantly working on my technique and trying to learn from the others on the grid.
Shailaja is a yeah write veteran, sticking with us for two whole years. If anyone knows what to say to any yeah write virgins out there, it’s her.
It can be frustrating for writers to find that they don’t seem to do well on the votes, week after week. And I get it. Rejection is hard to take, even if it means it comes from faceless people on the internet. But this place is a great way to prep yourself for the real world. It’s hard out there, trying to get your writing accepted by well-known publications or get featured in writing magazines. The thing we need to take away is that the editors give the best feedback when your piece is rejected from the grid. You don’t get that anywhere else, even if you were to pay someone to do it.
It also helps to keep in mind that writing is an evolutionary process. We must be willing to believe that our best work is yet to be written and that the perfect story or brilliant post is still out there, embedded in the mind. Get ready to tease it out of slumber and present it with love to the world. Put your soul, every inch of it, into your writing. You’ll see the difference.
Shailaja started blogging in 2007, but it took a while for her to really begin to take her craft seriously. She realized writing was something that not only kept her happy, but sane. She has two blogs, one dedicated to her journey as a parent and all that entails, and the other where she publishes her fiction and creative nonfiction. Not only does she blog, she’s working on her first novel. As you can expect, all of this keeps Shailaja quite busy:
My Parenting blog has always been a diary, as the name suggests. It began as a way for me to document snippets of my life as a parent and now I use it more and more as a way to talk to my daughter through letters and life lessons. It’s my comfortable space where I go to say what’s in my heart. There is a plan to convert parts of it into an e-book at some point in the future.
The Moving Quill is for the experimental writer in me. I only launched it last May and ever since I have watched myself grow as a writer who breaks out of my comfort zone. I have written pieces which touch upon depression, suicide, the creative process, romance, horror, humour and even free verse. I am hoping that this blog will be the stepping stone to a longer, sustained career in my writing journey.
Currently I am working on my first-ever book, a memoir, which will outline my personal battle and life lessons on depression and bipolar disorder. It’s simultaneously terrifying and invigorating. Here’s hoping that it will touch the lives of many.
Like many writers, when Shailaja isn’t writing, you can find her reading. That’s not all though. She also has a few hobbies tucked up her sleeve, one of which many of us can relate to.
I read a lot. True, a lot of it seems to be online these days and articles on writing keep me hooked for longer than they should, but I just love to read! I also love to swim. I learnt it pretty late (32!) but took to it happily after the first week of unholy terror! Finally, I facebook (Is that a verb?) so I have a lot of friends online so a good chunk of each day is spent there.
Ahh Facebook. You’ve hooked us all!
Shailaja is lucky enough to have the support of her wonderful family. I asked her to sell them in 140 characters or less. She didn’t disappoint.
Supportive as the banyan tree, in his love I thrive- My husband
Love, wisdom, grace and innocence, she always makes me smile- My daughter
[/vc_column_text][vc_separator][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”2/3″][vc_column_text]Thank you Shailaja for letting us get to know you a little better here at yeah write. We are so happy to have you in our community! Make sure you follow Shailaja’s blogs, The Moving Quill & Diary of a Doting Mom. You can also follow her on Facebook (The Moving Quill & Diary of a Doting Mom) and Twitter.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/3″][vc_single_image image=”27489″ alignment=”right”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_separator][vc_column_text]Oh, you want more? Well here are five things you never knew about Shailaja:
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She dislikes coffee. She just cannot stand the taste of it, except perhaps in ice-cream. Kind of ironic that it’s called the coffeehouse at yeah write.
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She trained students to take competitive exams such as the GRE and the GMAT between 2001 and 2005.
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She can stay up until 3am to finish/re-read a book, especially if it was written by Enid Blyton or P.G. Wodehouse!
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She takes cold showers every single day, even in the chilliest of winters. It’s a habit she developed after she learned to swim.
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Contrary to the gregarious person you see on social media, Shailaja is an introvert. So if you ever meet her, she would be the quiet one, listening to you speak.
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I am so privileged to know you as a fellow writer and a good friend, Shailaja. I love being a part of Blog a Rhythm where we all share parts of ourselves through our writing. The support given is wonderful.
Loved the interview and learning more about you. You’re such a great writer, so creative, honest and funny, I always enjoy reading your work.
For hobbies, you forgot to mention what a wonderful singer you are. I’ve heard a few recordings and you are great!
Thanks for your support and friendship, especially these past few months with the struggles I’ve encountered with my son’s illness and my mom’s death. I can feel your support despite the huge distance between India and Canada.
I enjoyed the way you decribed the support you get from.you family.
Thanks Jas! Yes I am very grateful for them, every single day.
What they forgot to mention in this interview, is that you encourage young bloggers like me with low self esteem to move on and achieve new writing goals!
You discovered me via the #AtoZChallenge , and I have learned a lot from you, and I still try to! Your lovely comments on my posts are all screenshotted and kept in my phone- they serve to boost me up when I’m sad! And yes, your blog posts are the ones I go to when I need help on some topic- be it blogging, or life! 🙂
All the best for your memoir! 🙂
Much love! <3
I don’t know what to say, Mithila. Thank you so much! That may be one of the sweetest and most wonderful comments I have ever read. Your writing deserves it my dear. For one so young, you write with grace and maturity. It’s a gift. Stay blessed <3
Shailaja, I have been reading your fiction posts and I find them very intriguing. I am tempted to try more fiction and hope I can manage my time better. And get over the procrastination to get the writer in me kicking. Love chai, so do I. A hot or cold tea will set me right ant time. Thanks for the advice and tips as usual – clarity from the fog of alphabets.
North India can’t afford cold showers!!! 😀
Aww thank you Inderpreet! That is so lovely to hear. Yes you really should try your hand at fiction. Everyone should. Breaking out of our comfort zones is important for writers 🙂
Yay, a fellow chai lover 😀 And yes I can imagine freezing in North Indian baths 😉
It’s raining celebrities at the BAR! 😀
Do you know how much of an inspiration you are? One of the best things that has happened to me in my life, is meeting you. You don’t drink coffee? I can imagine Vidhya’s death stare already 😛
And you are not an introvert when it is just me around. You talk non-stop while I stop and listen. 😀
Lots of love to you!
Wow, I am so deeply touched that you feel this way, Soumya. Yes, you are one of the best things to have happened to me as well.
As for coffee, Vidya must be thrilled. More for her, after all 😉 Hey, I only talk with people I am very close to, not in a group 😉
A lovely interview and witty answers. My elder one also takes cold showers, the whole year through. 🙂
Thank you so much, Sridevi 🙂 How lovely to hear such praise! Say hello to your young man from me 🙂
Loved reading this Shailaja!
When you spoke of the rejections – I could see myself. Though I make it to the grid – I never get votes. It makes me wonder sometimes on the quality, ability to relate to the audience and then I also doubt my ability to express and write. Reading your post, I felt I should keep going. It’s all there to stay 🙂
It’s a wonderful exercise, Parul. The rejections teach me more than the votes ever can. The lack of comments or critique show me that people did not connect to it the way I thought they would. So, instead of being upset, it helps me to reflect on what I have done wrong and rework it accordingly.
Thanks for reading, Parul 🙂
Always a pleasure to read more about you, Shailaja. 🙂 But no coffee? That is quite the revelation. I guess, I just assumed that coffee is the preferred poison of the writing world. :/
See? Never assume. You never can tell. Maybe all the coffee in the world is heaving a sigh of relief, now that I have declared my undying allegiance to tea 😀 Thanks for reading, Shantala!
I loved learning more about Shailaja! We’re a lot alike. Even if it means finding out she doesn’t like coffee… 😉
Of course we are! I always knew it. Yes, the coffee thing might be a deterrent, I agree 😉 But it’s good to be connected with you all, Natalie!